First Impressions

2009-12-17T01:50:00.000-08:00

Often First impressions and appearances can be quite deceptive. On rare occasions it is rather unjustifiable and on many occasions it is dangerous to us to base our judgments of people on first impressions. Lady Macbeth has said to Macbeth “look like the innocent flower, but be the serpent under’t ” and in today’s society many are like that. They pretend they are something that is not. They show they’d give their life to you but the reality is they use you, without even your knowledge.

Sometimes it’s so hard to imagine how People can be so opportunistic. If there is someone with a warm heart and if that person is willing to help, they just use that person, without second thoughts. When I think about it, I am at a loss to even think how dare they do such a thing, a heartless and brutal thing and according to my way of thinking it is something that cannot be excused or pardoned. But life is such people do that everyday and they just live with it.

Also there are people who don’t open up easily and don’t trust many for starters, but very genuine and helpful on the inside. That is why I said looks can be deceptive. It is a two way street.They are willing to help you and expect nothing in return. It is amazing how wonderful it is to be associated by that sort of authentic and fantastic people. I was retrospecting and thought I should salute them and express my deepest gratitude to them.

My advice is don’t give in to first impressions as they can be wrong and it is better to associate a person at least to some extent before forming an opinion about them. There is no room in this world for genuine people. Everything is based on lies and it is so disheartening.

What I really wanted to say is Looks can be deceptive, what really matters is what is inside the heart and how true the intentions are.No matter how deceptive the world is, be true to yourself as you should be able to answer yourself at the end..